In both cases, you just need to do a good job of explaining to them your interest in chastity and what you want them to do. We could say pretty much the same thing about platonic female friends. It’s hardly any effort on her part, and it allows her to keep a thumb on the scales of your life. Then he’d find himself in permanent chastity.Īs long as the relationship with an ex-girlfriend ended amicably, and you are still in regular contact, she might be only too happy to mail out a lock or some keys once in a while and set a release date. He worried someday he would ask for the keys back, and she would not only say no, but she’d also say there would be no new release dates. He said she liked being his keyholder so much he was concerned about one thing.
When he asked, she would either send the keys back or give him a new date when he could ask again. He’d mail her his keys, and she’d give him a date when he could ask to have them back. I also have two female friends I’ve never dated that are definite maybes.Ī guy I spoke with on a chastity website in a chat room once told me that one of his ex-girlfriends had been his keyholder for years. At least two of those I’m pretty sure would agree to do it. Out of my last four ex-girlfriends, I’d be comfortable with asking three of them to be my keyholder. Just because we weren’t a good fit for a relationship doesn’t mean they aren’t perfectly good friends. I have always tended to remain friends with my ex-girlfriends after the romantic relationships ended. Most of us have females as platonic friends. But, the truth is, most guys know someone they could ask if they would only do it. Also, guys may fear if they bring up chastity with a girl, they believe she will think they are weird or something. It’s really quite like how we are sometimes timid about asking out a girl we like because we’re afraid she will say no. When I hear that, I think what they probably mean is that they are hesitant to ask someone to be their keyholder. But I have no one to ask to be my keyholder. I hear a lot of guys say, I’d really like to try chastity, and I know I won’t enjoy self-locking. If what you want is the chastity lifestyle instead of just chastity play, a keyholder is a must. Also, starting your chastity journey alone is a lonely way to go. Most of us don’t have the willpower to last very long on our own.
You become entirely dependent on willpower to control those same urges that may have often sent you to a porn site with your penis in your hand. Most guys who try self-locking get bored right away. Locking your device and then handing over the keys to another human being to control takes chastity to a whole other level.
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Just understand you won’t get the full chastity experience if you go about it that way. Is it even necessary to have a keyholder to try chastity? Can’t a guy just self-lock or use one of the many virtual chastity device keyholders you can easily find on the web? Sure, you can do that, and some men find that an acceptable option. That can make finding a keyholder at least somewhat more challenging. A guy not in a relationship doesn’t have this built-in option.
Most commonly for men in relationships, it is the caged male’s wife or intimate partner. I won’t repeat the definition here, so if you haven’t read the first part of the multi-part post, you can click on the above link and review it if you wish.Īs noted in the first part of this post, a keyholder can be anyone as long as that person consents to fill the role. In The Complete Idiot’s Guide To Finding A Chastity Keyholder ─ Part 1, we defined the term keyholder. Or, you already have a chastity device and have been enjoying self-locking for a while. Either you’ve recently discovered male chastity and think it’s something you want to try. This post, The Complete Idiot’s Guide To Finding A Chastity Keyholder ─ Part 2, focuses on guys who are not in a committed romantic relationship at the moment but are interested in trying chastity.
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